Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets

 Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets  

Like a well cut diamond, one woman has many sides. When studying Proverbs 31, we noted a Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets  in particular. Often we only see the surface of a person and never look deeply enough to truly discover who they are. Thus, it is important that we realize all the dimensions of ourselves, communicate that understanding effectively to others and utilize everything God provided us to express himself through our lives.

Discovering Who I Am…

My story…

I was born to talk, sing and write (in that order). I first spoke in front of an audience when I was around 4. I wrote my first song at 6 years old. I started writing poetry around 12 and books as a young adult.  All three of these gifts are passionate expressions of me. I love crafting thoughts and putting together puzzles of ideas. But that is me, simply Stella.

I share my story in hope that it encourage you. These pages reflect parts of my own metamorphosis as a CHAYIL WOMAN. I have evolved.  And I am still growing. Our questions create a roadmap for the journey. They help us define who we are and why we are here. I shared my story, now what about yours? Here are some questions to start you on that journey.

What about you?

I pray that you be motivated and inspired. May you find joy and renewed sense of passion for life, love for your work and that your days on this planet truly matter in the eternal scheme of things. 

As Chayil Women we answer these questions with clarity and focus.

 What are my Virtues?

What are my Values?

What is my Vision?

What is my Passion?    

What is my Purpose?

The Chayil Warrior

occupy my territory

Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets — The Warrior

2 Peter 1:3-4 says, “as His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue, 4 by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature…” NKJV

A Chayil woman has certain rights, privileges and promises. But if we do not know what they are and how to access them, they are useless to us. And so it becomes my responsibility to understand how to OCCUPY and POSSESS what belongs to me.

To be effective against opposition a CHAYIL warrior must know…

How large is my Territory?

What is my Authority?

What is my Purpose?

How extensive is my Power?

What is my Strategy?

Who are my Strategic Alliances?

The Chayil Worshiper


 Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets — The Worshiper

There was no greater desire of the Father than that we should be like HIM. We become like what we worship. Thus, in the place of worship, we are transformed into the likeness of the one we adore. It is an awesome process that leaves you feeling overwhelmed and in AWE. He is the God of AWE. 


What constitutes my Hunger?

What is in my Heart?

What is the strength of my Humility?

Who am I Listening to?

What is my History With God?

The Chayil Wealth 


Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets — The Wealth

Deuteronomy 8:18 says that it is the Lord who gives us power to get wealth that we may establish God’s covenant in the earth. There are 9 resources required to establish wealth. The first of those resources is “me.” It is my soundness of mind and body. Beyond that, a Chayil woman must realize that to establish a covenant requires a budget which can sustain buildings, land and support the people who need them. This is needed to spread the gospel. So it is no coincident that one of the meanings of the Hebrew word “Chayil” is wealth. Health is a resource. Wealth is a resource. It includes the following.

To build wealth, we must master learning to manage…

My Health as My Wealth  

 My Job / Self-Employment

My Business / Investments  

My  Income Streams  

 My Land / Real Estate

My Contributions

The Chayil Wisdom 


Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets — The Wisdom

Wisdom is more than counseling. It is more than applying sound advice to life. Wisdom includes the components of connectivity, creativity and cunning problem solving.


My Counsel

My Counselors

My Connections

My Creativity

My Customer Service


The Chayil Wife


Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets — The Wife

Marriage take more than love. To arrive at a successful union requires much more than a beautiful wedding. It demands an awareness of the Laws of Covenant. It demands the unwavering commitment to ones spouse and the lifelong decision to serve others as you serve God.

An effective marriage requires extensive relational skills that empower you to easily navigate between your family life and connect it with the community your family is a part of.

My Home

My Husband

My Children

My Church

My Community

The Chayil Word


Chayil Woman’s 7 Facets — The Word

There is a progression to knowledge. If we do not understand the process of inner WORD formation that takes us from information to manifestation, there will be gaps in what we are able to create in the earth. And much life, time and effort will be wasted. There is more to hiding the word in my heart to memorizing it. There is more to comprehending the WORD than confessing it. I must learn to move the word along the progression intentionally and our manifestations will greatly increase.

My Information

My Illumination

My Revelation

My Activation

My Manifestation