Sometimes you have to stop listening to other people and start listening to yourself. Listen to your own heart and do what it says. Respect your own perspective.
You are wiser than you know, stronger than you think and more resilient than you give yourself credit for. But far too many of us play small and discount the immense depth of the wisdom we carry.
Stop it. Just stop it.
Listen to the wisdom in your own heart and do what it says. You already know the answer, You already know what to do. So stop looking for someone else to give you the answer you already carry. Validate yourself. Honor your own truth.
Trust your self.
The more you listen to that voice, the louder it will become and the greater your confidence will be in adhering to the instructions that voice gives you. You really do love yourself too much to lead yourself wrong.